Tick-tock, tick-tock. What's next?
Ladies, especially those who are around 30s, that may be on your mind after 3 - 4 years being in a stable relationship. You feel anxious as your family keep pestering you on getting married. You feel left out when your friends start building their families. You feel annoyed of the aunties that keep asking you on your status. You feel worried of why he has not pop the question.
Here's rojak view of why...
Men always feel that it is too early to get married. They worry about finances. They feel that they do not have enough money for the proposal, wedding, ring, honeymoon, house, renovation, etc. They feel that they are still young. They think you will wait for them.
Hence, ladies, you will need to let them know that you do not need fancy wedding, extravaganza honeymoon, one karat diamond ring, etc, etc. That's if you really don't mind :)
You need to analyse with them. If you get married at the age of 35, get pregnant two years later, give birth to a baby by 38 years old. By the time you are 60 years old, your first child would be 22 years old. Your parents would most likely be around 85 years old. You can do the rest of the calculation if you plan to have more kids or get married later. Would your parents be still around to see their grandchildren? These questions will normally strike them to think and hit them with reality.
Tick-tock, tick tock.
Ladies, especially those who are around 30s, that may be on your mind after 3 - 4 years being in a stable relationship. You feel anxious as your family keep pestering you on getting married. You feel left out when your friends start building their families. You feel annoyed of the aunties that keep asking you on your status. You feel worried of why he has not pop the question.
Here's rojak view of why...
Men always feel that it is too early to get married. They worry about finances. They feel that they do not have enough money for the proposal, wedding, ring, honeymoon, house, renovation, etc. They feel that they are still young. They think you will wait for them.
Hence, ladies, you will need to let them know that you do not need fancy wedding, extravaganza honeymoon, one karat diamond ring, etc, etc. That's if you really don't mind :)
You need to analyse with them. If you get married at the age of 35, get pregnant two years later, give birth to a baby by 38 years old. By the time you are 60 years old, your first child would be 22 years old. Your parents would most likely be around 85 years old. You can do the rest of the calculation if you plan to have more kids or get married later. Would your parents be still around to see their grandchildren? These questions will normally strike them to think and hit them with reality.
Tick-tock, tick tock.
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